Reinvent your personality

One fine morning you wake up as a personality what you want to be. For that you will have to do a complete makeover of your personality. You will have to forget your past personality, your personal weaknesses and think only of your strong points.

You may think that it might be difficult. No it’s simple and needs little help from you. Nobody else in this world can help you better than you yourself. All that it requires is that it takes a good deal of planning, resilience and grit. You will have to follow some steps and discipline. Here are a few tips to help you get started.

 How To Reinvent Yourself

·       Believe In Yourself

·       Take Your Time

·       Stop blaming yourself

·       Stick to your plans

·       Visualize your future

·       Say no to negatives

·       Check your progress

Believe In Yourself

Self-belief forms the base of the process involved in handling the transformation that you wish to acquire. If you don’t trust yourself, then the chance of your efforts botching up are huge. Remind yourself that you had been great and that you will do the same in the future.

Take Your Time

When you feel at some point in life that this wasn’t something you wanted for yourself, you know it’s time to change. Reinventing yourself isn’t always easy. It can seem to be exciting, but at the same time, the change can be quite intimidating too. Therefore, it is essential to take your time to settle down and think about how you plan and go about it.

Stop Blaming yourself

Only when you don’t blame yourself will you be able to go about it without feeling bad about the entire deal. It quite often happens that you start evading people to avoid answering their questions related to work. It is important to realize that if you are not able to face people and have enough strength to withstand them, you can never achieve your dreams.

Stick to Plan

You should not change tracks all of a sudden. Consider organizing your steps in order to attain your goal, which makes it simpler for you to accomplish. If you are aiming to change your career or life, instead of leaping directly to conclusions, plan it and move step wise.

Follow A Plan

Nothing works out without a concise, consistent and clear plan. You have to be able to focus on yourself such that you know what you are doing.

Visualize Future

You must be clear about your future. Future visualization in important. After you are clear about your future, take some time to sit back and relax. Now imagine a new future and ask yourself is it actually what you want in life.

 Say no to negatives

When you present your ideas of transforming to others, be sure to face oppositions from people in and around you. You will get a negative feedback in the beginning, as they are used to seeing and dealing with you the way you are. Therefore, say no to negatives.

 Check Your Progress

After you have decided everything required to reach your ultimate goal, keep a track of all the progress you make towards achieving it. Be it a very small achievement; appreciate yourself for your efforts. This will thus build your self-confidence and help you pursue the ultimate aim in life

C R Arun